We often laugh at the
inability of a dog to focus. I was able
to observe this, recently, while walking the dogs. Our older dog, Lucy Lou, happily walked
alongside me. We were having a nice
conversation when she politely excused herself, sniffed around and then did her
business. Sadie, who was originally my
Mother-in-law’s dog, just turned three and is like the Beatles song, “Here,
There and Everywhere.” She trots ahead
on the grass, head slightly lowered, which means she is prepping herself…then
she hears something, smells something, sees something (real or imaginary) and
instantly forgets why she is outside.
Lucy Lou gets distracted, generally speaking, when another dog nears
us.
Watching the two of them
moving about their environment, I began to see traits, which to me, seem completely
human. People that are younger, or new
to some aspect of their lives, are truly like Sadie. I am not referring to the need for someone to
walk them. More so, the traits related
to being curious, being hyperactive, easily excited and trying to do many
things at the same time. Young children
definitely react in this fashion. When our
girls were little, I remember Debbie going shopping and buying much-needed
socks for them. She carefully put the
socks in a box and we figured that for the child opening the gift they would be
excited at having to pull out the many items.
When it came time to open the gift, the socks went flying out and the
box became the toy that they were excited about. That is, until the next gift, or a morsel of
food came drifting into view. In the
workplace, the same goes as you see the eager, young faces running around,
happy to jump in and help. I remember
one fellow that was so excited to get involved in ALL applications the group
was working in (not possible unless one wanted their head to explode).
As for the Lucy Lou traits,
which tend to be found in people with experience, or, how can I put this
delicately, those that are more mature.
I am at the point in my life, where I tend to think that I fall into
this category (mature? Age-wise, but always action-wise…just ask my daughters). Instead of running around, distracted by
whatever comes dancing or floating in front, this group has a bit more
focus. They tend to pick some path to
follow, changes course when it meets the need, takes care of their business and
keeps on track. People of high success
tend to focus on no more than three priorities at any one point in time. When I was younger, had more energy, and was
in a more Sadie-phase, I remember looking at the “older,” Lucy Lou-phased employees
that I worked for and wondered why they did not go out for the lunch plus
beers, or after work outings…they were more deliberate and focused in their
actions.
There is the old tale of two
bulls on a hill overlooking the herd.
The young one, all excited, says, “Let’s run down the hill and be with
one of the cows.” Where upon the elder
bull calmly says, “Let’s walk down the hill and be with them all.” OK, this old story is slightly sexist, but it
makes the point. We can live in the
Sadie-phase, and run helter skelter trying to accomplish many things; or, in
the Lucy Lou-phase and move deliberately and with conviction to fully
accomplish (aka, succeed) in a few. After
all, as I concluded my walk, I realized that I guess we can learn new tricks
from old dogs.
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